A man's gift makes room for him, and brings him before great men ( Proverbs 18:15-16 ). General Reference . But the name of the Lord meets his eye. So the needle that draws the thread through the cloth is some means to join it together.. * a 2 Let someone else * praise you, and not your own mouth; Others, * and not your own lips. The words of a mans mouth are dark as the deep waters of a pool, or tank; but the well-spring of wisdom is as a flowing brook, bright and clear. So taken the verse presents a contrast like that of Jeremiah 2:13.Plumptre. It makes no difference in the end whether a man gets nothing, or spends all that he gets, he can come to poverty by either road. Exalt thyself; He'll abase you. 2 A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. Jarchi interprets this clause thus, "among wise men his reproach shall be made manifest;''. If there is water beneath the surface of the earth it must force its way and find an outlet; it needs no hand of man to come to its aid; it penetrates the soil and forms a fertilising stream in obedience to natural law. And, like their Divine Master, they know how to speak a word in season to him that is weary (Isaiah 50:4), and thus that which flows from their lips is as refreshing and healthful to weary and struggling men and women on the highway of life as the living, cooling watercourse is to the dusty and thirsty traveller. True it is that there is much that is called friendship that is unworthy of the name, but as we do not reject the real coin because there are base imitations of it, so we must not permit the counterfeit of friendship to shake our confidence in the real thing. To commit sin is the killing of the soul; to refuse hope of mercy is to cast it down to hell. Wherefore let reason and indifferency hear the differences that are between any, and if it can be done let them be reconciled. Zockler translates, "He that separateth himself seeketh his own pleasure, against all counsel doth he rush on," and the renderings of Stuart, Miller, and Delitzsch are substantially the same, except that Delitzsch translates the latter clause"against all that is . (1 Samuel 15:17-23.) But the words are the stream which the deep waters send forth. It is not only a strong tower, but our only defence. He does violence to his own understandingto those mental faculties which enable him to place things side by side and to compare them, and to sift and weigh evidence before he arrives at a conclusion. The one when he speaketh is not understood by the ear, the other when he speaketh is not understood by the heart: the words of the one are not apprehended, the wants of the other are not apprehended; the one is heard, but not conceived; the other is conceived, but not heard. For Homiletics on Proverbs 18:12, see on chap. A mans gifts. NASB There is a way which seems right to a person, But its end is the way of death. Spiritual sickness for sin befalling a reprobate soul, is final and total desperation. I. 4 The words of the mouth are deep waters, Wait till God speaks, and the case will look very differently.Miller. The heart of the prudent gets knowledge; and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge. March 12. I. He can stand it no longer. Poverty seems as universal as disease and death, and must be referred to the same source. So long as a man has this no pain of body or sorrow of soul can cast him down entirely, but without it he has little power to bear manfully the burdens of life, and a sense of the absence of it would be enough to crush him utterly although he had no other burdens to bear. And so it is with the speech of a godly man. Even Daniel, although a captive in Babylon, found that the God-given powers within him made room for him at a heathen court and brought him before more than one mighty monarch. Proverbs 3:13). Even women have borne the most severe bodily sufferings not only with fortitude but with exultationlifted above their bodily pain by a vivid realisation of unseen and spiritual realities and an intense consciousness of the favour of God. 1. Proverbs 18 1 An unfriendly man pursues selfish ends; he defies all sound judgment. If a man were possessed of a field exceedingly productive, either of good fruits or of noisome and poisonous herbs, according to the cultivation bestowed on it, what pains would he use to clear it of every weed, and to have it sown with good grain! Help us purchase electrical generators for churches. So with obtaining knowledge. Partner with StudyLight.org as God uses us to make a difference for those displaced by Russia's war on Ukraine. 10 The character of God is a tower of strength, for the lovers of God delight to run into his heart. They become uneasy, fretted, and fidgetty; and are ever anxious to catch at any occasion for cutting the matter short and being done with it. The simple power to influence men by speech will gratify for the momentbut if the increase of the lips is to be an abiding source of contentment there must be a consciousness that the power has been used to benefit mankind in some way or otherthat the skilful pleading has been on the side of right, that the powerful logic has been used to expose the false and to defend the true, or the brilliant oratory has had for its aim the moral enlightenment and strengthening of the listeners. Contention between any men is a plain proof that there is some flaw in human nature, that the relations of human creatures are not what they ought to be. The poor inconsiderate fools never think what they are about. It may be taken by superior physical force, it may be surprised and captured, or its inhabitants may be starved into a surrender. Findeth implies the rarity of the thing obtained (Ecclesiastes 7:27-28), and the need of circumspection in the search. Such a man often deeply wrongs others. In this proverb he indirectly condemns himself and warns others by his own example. She said, "Well, honey, you go outside and play for a little while and then come on in and Mother will tell you." Reynolds. They keep no daily reckoningno accounts; and so their money is gone, they cant tell howthey had no idea they were living at such a rate!and even when they have made the discovery there is no improvement. And so it stops the contentions. As surely as water will find its level, so a truly gifted man will find some outlet for his talentssome sphere large enough to use what has been bestowed upon him for the very purpose of being used. Casting his eye along the work, as he laid down his tools and adjusted his apron, he detected a defect, and instantly called out to his senior partner that the wall was not plumb. "Before destruction the heart of man is haughty.". To the righteous God is good, and he nestles and shelters himself in that; runs into the nurture and shelter of Gods love, and, in the comfort of this strong tower, is lifted high. But there is a profounder sense. A pretty thing for him to cavil! Without itChristianthy soul can never prosper. But it must not be forgotten that there must always be two persons implicated in the guilt and cruelty of thus killing the reputation of a fellow-creature. And sometimes it has been a nation that has contended with another, and then not one has fallen a victim, but hundreds on both sides. Such an approach runs counter to sound wisdom because we all need input from other people to make wise decisions. To the one he gives the wounds of his slandering, to the other the wounds of his flattering. The Apostle James charges even the professed followers of Christ with having despised the poor (James 2:6). Solomon delivers a warning against the vainglorious passion of aspiring to an universal acquaintance and an empty popularity, such as was courted by his brother Absalom, which will bring with it no support in adversity, but will ruin a man by pride and rashness and prodigal expenditure.Wordsworth. Before that he served as director and teacher at Calvary Chapel Bible College, Germany, following more than 20 years of pastoral ministry. Studylight has an interesting tool called "Verse-by-Verse Bible Commentary" - This allows you to quickly see the comments from multiple resources without having to leave the page. Going beyond these to utterances which have a wider influence, the proverb is no less true. Satisfied. A man can rise above pain of body. Cains fratricide, Judass treachery, presumptious, aspiring, heaven-daring sins, find this final catastrophe, to despair of the mercy of God. As if the goodness of God, and the value of Christs ransom, were below his iniquity. The righteous By faith and prayer, devotion toward God, and dependance on . When a brother is revolted away, it is from a city of strength; and contentions are like the bars of a citadel. The whole meaning is, that one brother revolted away from another, is revolted from a city of strength, that being what one is to all the rest. Partner with StudyLight.org as God uses us to make a difference for those displaced by Russia's war on Ukraine. It is not so with heavenly friendships. Verse 9 . Snow gathers snow as we roll it on the ground. if there is the absence of all sober and considerate calculation, and, as a consequence, no due proportioning of outlay to income, but a reckless and wasteful expenditure, leaving an unlooked-for deficiencya woful amount minusat the years end? Now the lost has done all the strong speaking as yet. Thither their eyes look, thither their hands are stretched, thither their hearts carry them. These names are often borne by men who are destitute of the qualifications and feelings proper to the relationships which they express, but when any one of them is applied to God it is applied to one who combines within Himself all those attributes of character in perfection which ought to be possessed in some degree by men who are called by these names. 1. The first clause of this verse should be A man of many friends will prove himself base, or is so to his own destruction, i.e., he who professes to regard everybody as his friend will, in so doing, involve himself in trouble. The emperor Julian used to banter the Christians with that precept of our Lord, When thine adversary smites thee on the one cheek, turn to him the other also: but Christians consult their ease as well as their consciences when they obey this precept in the spirit of it; whereas proud and passionate fools, when they give vent to their rancorous spirits, because they cannot bear the shadow of an indignity, not only turn the other cheek to their adversary, but smite, and urge, and almost force him to strike and destroy them.Lawson. Understanding the gift here spoken of as a special mental endowment (see Hitzig), we remark. None but a foolish man seeks contention. Then your whole body also is full of light. 18 An unfriendly person pursues selfish ends. Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out. Here, the counsel is the deep water, not the words. Proverbs 18:1. Some men spend days of solitude in patient investigation for no other purpose than to make a name for themselves. Proverbs 18:10-11. God divided the land of Israel by lot, and if men had generally been content to permit Him to divide the earth among them in a similar manner, how much more rich and prosperous would they have been. My old MS. Bible translates, Occasioun seeketh that wil go awei fro a freend: at al tyme he schal ben wariable. The spirit of the man is the man himself, his power to love, to hope, and to enjoy. A. The one he woundeth so, that his blow is neither heard, seen, nor felt. We could as rationally set out to find a sound that had expired in air, as to find a lost moment. And when we reflect what infinite results depend upon what a man does with his time, we can see the force of the proverb, because the slothful man is a waster of the most precious commodity in this world. This one thingsaith the man of GodI do (Philip. but delight in airing their own opinions. 18:30-32; 33:11; 1 Tim. and there is a friend [there is a special friend] who will stick closer than a brother ( Proverbs 18:24 ). If this word is taken in a good sense the fruit must be good; but it may be ironical, meaning false or malignant words will find ample retribution. A man that hath friends must show himself friendly ( Proverbs 18:24 ): That's basic now. Proverbs 14:12. Proverbs 18:1. The wife of Potiphar seemed just in her cause when she declared that Joseph left his garment in her hand and fled. So long as the lasting hills remain, and the present natural laws govern the world they must give forth every day abundant streams. [Note: Waltke, The Book . One of them happens to be their friend; and whether it be he or his adversary that makes the statement, partiality for him stirs their resentment at the injury done to him; the blood warms, and, passion thus striking in, they hastily interrupt the narrationwill hear no more of itand at once proceed to load the enemy of their friend with abuse and imprecation. A man, when he is alone, is more likely to see things as they really are; he is less under the influence of the seen and temporal than when he is in the market, or on the crowded highway, and consequently things unseen and eternal have a more powerful influence over him at such a season. All spiritual communisms bless.Miller. CSB There is a way that seems right to a person, but its end is the way to death. When these have lost their energy, there is nothing to lift him up, and existence becomes an intolerable burden. But it is pre-eminently the godly man who can sustain infirmity of body. Coverdale thus: "Who so hath pleasure to sowe discorde, piketh a quarrel in every thinge. When men take a pride in separating themselves from the sentiments and society of others, in contradicting all that has been said before them and advancing new notions of their own, which, though ever so absurd, they are wedded to, it is to gratify a desire or lust of vain-glory, and they are seekers and meddlers with that which does not belong to them. In the two clauses of the verse, on the principle of parallelism, there appears to be an inversion of the same sentiment; for, properly speaking, the words uttered are not the deep waters, but the stream that issues from them; and, on the other hand, the wellspring of wisdom is not the flowing brook, but the deep and copious fountain or reservoir from which it issues. The lot causeth contentions to cease, and parts between the mighty ( Proverbs 18:17-18 ). Call upon the LORD in your troubles, and let Him rescue you ( Ps 18:1-6 ). The bite of a viper is not so deadly as the wound of these talebearers stories and insinuations. (2) he who separates himself (from the foolish, unlearned multitude) seeks his own desire (that which is worthy to be desired), and mingleth himself with all wisdom. 4 and 15); that against bold impiety, proud dispositions and hardness of heart against the poor (Proverbs 18:3; Proverbs 18:12; Proverbs 18:23); that against slothfulness in the duties of ones calling, foolish confidence in earthly riches, and want of true moral courage and confidence in God (Proverbs 18:9-11; comp. In some cases the only way a judge may be able to settle a dispute is by the drawing of lots (16-18).People may become strong friends or strong enemies, depending on how they are treated. is the same one who wastes his life away. Through desire a man having separated himself, &c. ] Here the reading that is in margin, methinks, is the better: "He that separates himself" - either from his friend, as the old interpreter makes the sense, or from anything . Because his soul is in communication with an exhaustless source of spiritual life and wisdom. Natural or acquired eagerness of spirit, and impatience of protracted inquiry. Dr. Constable's Expository Notes. Through desire, etc. Proverbs 19. Men cannot live a life of isolation and know anything of the enjoyment of life. g So the Targum. This was not an untruth, and appearances were certainly very much against her innocent victim, but if Joseph had been allowed to tell his story too, the truth might have come to light. She said, "Oh yes, Mommy." For he who knows only his own side of the case is convicted of knowing little of that; his reasons may be good and no one may have been able to refute them, but if he is equally unable to refute the reasons on the opposite side, if he does not so much as know what they are, what rational ground has he for preferring either opinion?Jacox. The most useful method would be to go to the section of Scripture that you are interested in, and selecting the button for a . He spells out every letter, and putting it together, criesWho is a God like unto thee? (Micah 7:18.) Proverbs 18:5-6; Proverbs 18:8; Proverbs 18:17-21. Perhaps the next verse helps us to determine the meaning (Stuart). Proverbs 18:1 - A man who isolates himself seeks his own desires; he rages against all wise judgment. 2 Fools care nothing for thoughtful discourse; all they do is run off at the mouth. This is, I think, quite an important proverb, the next one. He was David's rock, fortress, deliverer, God, strength, buckler, horn, and high tower ( Ps 18:2 ). #1 "The tongue". Doubtless there is secular truth in all this The disgraced citizen is often the most reproachful.Miller. Life is a wide thing; and might, at least, be acted through, before in the darker points we insist upon a judgment Folly, and therefore, mischief; shame, and therefore, ill desert. The married who is truly Christian knows that, even though sometimes things are badly matched, still his marriage relation is well pleasing to God as His creation and ordinance, and what he therein does or endures, passes as done or suffered for God.Luther. The aims of a man left to himself is really a translation of but two words, meaning a separated one seeks. When the work had advanced several feet above the ground, a younger man, with a steadier hand and a brighter eye, came to assist the elder operator. A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire. John MacArthur is the pastor-teacher of Grace Community Church in Sun Valley, California, as well as an author, conference speaker, president of The Master's University and Seminary, and featured teacher with the Grace to You media ministry. So the man whose words are listened to and waited for by other menwhether he be the skilful barrister, or the powerful statesman, or the preacher of the Gospel, has a satisfaction in being able so to put forth his conceptions as to give to his fellow-men new ideasto show them things in a light in which they might never have seen them but for this power which he possesses. The citadel of him who trusts in the Lord. 3 Doing wrong leads to disgrace, and scandalous behavior brings contempt. Blessed Are the Unoffendable. 2. He that was pleased to make the Sabbath of rest, is also pleased with those who make a Sabbath of peace. Secularly, a wife is the highest treasure. As if the pardon of his sins would empty Gods storehouse of compassion, and leave His stock of mercy poor. This is that sin which not only offers injury and indignity to the Lord of heaven and earth, but even breaks that league of kindness which we owe to our own flesh. It must be plumb, rejoined the builder, somewhat piqued, for I have laid every stone by the plumb-line. Suiting the action to the word he grasped the rule, laid it along his work, and triumphantly pointed to the lead vibrating and settling down precisely on the cut that marks the middle. He also that is slothful in his work is a brother to him that is a great waster ( Proverbs 18:7-9 ). (JB) The man who holds aloof seeks every pretext to bare his teeth; he defies all sound judgment. Wealth is a fortress with a most uncertain foundation. They are often held in contempt even while living, and the reproaches of those who have been made to suffer by them are heaped upon their heads. The original here is difficult, and differently understood. Takeagainthe child of Godfeeble, distressed, assaulted. And as it sways the affections and takes a mans will captive, it wields the power of life and death not over the body of the man but over the man himself. Asaphs steps had well-nigh slipped when he saw the prosperity of the wickedthat violence covered them as a garment, and that they set their mouth against the heavens; and yet that their strength was firm, and they had more than heart could wish (Psalms 73:2-8). If there is to be a genuine friendship there must be mutual confidence and a mutual recognition of excellencies, for if the trust and admiration is on one side only the fire will soon burn out for want of fuel. The motive is through (his own) desire of being esteemed singularly learned, as Proverbs 18:2 shows, not from sincere delight in understanding. 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